Anonymous said: okay.. so me and my best friend (both girls) are 15 years old. Ive known her for two years. she saved my life. not kidding. i wanted to kill myself so i took a walk, and i found her sitting on a bench crying because her mom was in the hospital. just talking to her made me want to live again. I have the biggest crush on her but I dont want to ruin our friend ship. what should i do??
Sometimes you have to take a step back from your own feelings and consider the other person. If you don’t think the feeling is reciprocated, it may be best to just stay friends.. The feeling will pass and you will meet someone else, friendship in tact. But if you think she does feel the same and you can’t ignore your feelings, then go for it and tell her, or take her on a ‘date’ and see how she reacts? Either way, you have to weigh up what your friendship is worth and could you stand it if you lost her altogether?